LoveLife is what you make it!?
Friday, April 6th, 2007
most people would agree if i say… love is the most important thing in this world. it has been considered to be because it could makes a person happy when he is sad… makes a person strong and never to surrender when he is weak… makes a person live longer when he is about to die… and makes a person soar high when he is about to fall. but do you believe that love is what we make it… just like the old statement that goes this way, "life is what we make it!?"
i have said that love is what we make it because many people fall in love with someone because they have chosen to fall in love with that certain someone. but i must say, many people would disagree simply because what is accepted to a person might not be the same with the other. meaning, each of us has its own identity or kind of thinking… nevertheless, we are the main actor in this stage called life and whatever decision we make will definetely affect our lives in the future.
sometimes or should i say most of the time when we have found the person whom we wanted to be with for the rest of our lives, a new love comes along… a new love that would offer more compared to what we already have… a new love that we would soon realize is much and far better to the person we are loving now… and a new love that might trigger ourselves to leave the present and embrace the new future…
in this kind of situation, we have our choice or choices and sometimes we do and choose the right ones and there are sometimes also that what we have thought would be the best for us will bring misery and boredome. and soon we will ask ourselves, why? why? and another why? and more why’s?
love and life is what we make it…
lovelife is what we make it…
it is YOU and WE who choose, make and decide the lovelife we wanted. and in choosing, making and deciding we sometimes succeed or sometimes fail. nonetheless, whatever the result of what we have chosen, made and decided… we must be ready. we must be accountable to it… because nobody is to be blamed but OURSELVES. isn’t?
but eventhough lovelife is what we make it… i still questioned, why do we need to fall in love with the new ones where in fact there’s already someone who makes our lives worth it to live in? why do we need to choose that somebody who have just came along that might lead us to the realization that we have chosen the wrong moves of our lives. life is really unexplainable so with love… i guess, we are a part of a big chess board and all of these are all but GAMES… so let’s play the game real good this time…
its so nice to love and to be loved. moreover, it is still ourselves who choose, make and decide… if we have chosen not to entertain somebody in our lives anymore because we have already someone besides us, it is our choice…
so be careful!
